Ouch

 February 20, 2008

The US Dept of Health highly recommends that Americans traveling to Asia and Eastern European countries (ie Kazakhstan) get a number of immunizations prior to travel. Today was the day I started this process. Nothing like a good needle stick to make it all FEEL real!



Dart and I will have to get:

  1. Hepatitis A & Hepatitis B (3 shots over 6 months)

MMR (1 shot)

Tetnus (1 shot)

Whooping Cough (1 shot)

Typhoid (pill or shot)

Scripts for Anti Diarrhea



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Please tell us about your family...

 February 18, 2008

Today I was asked by my China LID Group to describe our family...

My husband Dart and I are working on our 19th year of marriage, I am a working mom (CEO/healthcare company), have a secret crush on MattLauer, have been PLANNING to scrapbook for about 5 years and consider coffee, chocolate and red wine to be basic food groups. Dart just finished a "mid life" Masters in Education and is now an aspiring high school history teacher. He reads 2-3 books a week (almost all non-fiction), is a season ticket holder for the Lake Erie Monsters(hockey) and a very PROUD graduate of Brown University. After almost 2 decades together we are still best friends and even better golf partners:)

Our boys are Kiefer (17), Aidan (13) and Nolan (8). They are burpy and loud and smell like a mix of BO, peanut butter and Axe bodyspray. Our grocery bill is enough to feed a small country, sneakers are purchased by the gross and socks are first come first serve. They all play hockey and golf and sometimes lacrossse and football. They can recite every word from "Monte Python's Holy Grail", list the "5 rules of dodgeball" and know "who lives in a pineapple under the sea"! They are 110% BOYS!! We love every bit of it.

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Their Happiness... My Hope


Two familes from my Kaz agency (Adoption ARK) met their daughters yesterday. They are bloggers too (Baby Spyker and Journey to Kazakhstan listed below). I don't know these people and yet I feel so conneted to them, to their journey. They are perhaps 6 months ahead of me, meeting the daughters they longed for. How wonderful for them and what hope and promise for us.

I'm getting more and more excited about our "American Girl".

(last october we went to the american girl doll store and bought a doll for our soon to be daughter.)

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Happy Valentines Day

 February 14, 2008





We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.

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Retail Therapy

 February 9, 2008

I finally did it. After 18 years of shopping on the "boy-side" of Gymboree, today I crossed the great pink divide! I bought pink dresses and bows and tights and teenie little socks even a swimsuit and sunglasses. Pink, pink, pink (and lady bugs and bees (Beas)too!). It felt wonderful. Then I walked by Carters and there in the window if you can believe it, is this huge poster of the most gorgeous Chinese toddler I've ever seen...more pink, more lady bugs!





I was at a conference in Tempe Arizona this weekend and I bought so much I had to pick up another suitcase just to get it all home:-)

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Do they make pink hockey skates???

 February 7, 2008






Our lake has become a backyard ice rink!



Dart didn't want to miss the action.




Big brother Kiefer can't wait to teach his sisters to skate.

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Delila... NO H.

 February 6, 2008

More than a year ago I heard and I fell in love with a song by the Plain White Tees and hence the name Delila. But it appears that Grandma can't help but think of the biblical Delilah. As she points out we stil have a few days to figure this out! I just wonder if she is organizing a write in campaign to over throw the name poll!!!









Grandma's Delilah...


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Paper Pregnant-AGAIN!

 February 5, 2008


Big day today. This is the day we send our finalized dossier to Adoption ARK! In the adoption world we are now known as "paper ready" or "paper pregnant". Since we are also still paper pregnant with China does this mean we are carrying twins???


The Fed Ex package we sent weighs a couple of pounds and contains every bit of personal information possible (short of a DNA sample). Hopefully somewhere on the receiving end of this paperwork is the daughter we have been wanting for so very long. For now our work is done. There are many steps still remaing before we travel to Kazakhstan but Dart and I can do little to affect the timeline. This is the part where we have very little control it is called, THE WAIT. And so it begins....




This is an e-mail post from a case worker from our agency about the next steps in the Kazakhstan process:


Dear Ark families, There are a few things I want to explain you about Kaz. adoption and timeframes.Timeframes are very flexible, that is why we provide only estimates and I want to explain you why.We work very efficiently, and when we receive the paperwork, we review it in one or twodays. We mail it to one of two translators (often even we FedEx it to the translators).We can not use just any translators, we use accredited by the Kaz. Embassy translators.Sometimes they have other dossiers on their tables and our dossier should wait a little for its turn to betranslated. However, the translation takes about 2-3 weeks approximately.After we receive the translation back, we have to arrange the full dossier with English documents and Russiantranslation in a way it is required by the Embassy. It also takes time and effort and if we all are very busy, it might also take a few days to arrange the file.The timeframe when we receive the documents in full till they are submitted to the Embassy might beabout a month, approximately. We had excellent relationships with the Kaz. Embassy and each dossier went through their office pretty quickly,on an expedite basis. When we have approached the end of 2007, we heard that there is going to be change of staff andwe were able to pass some documents in a record speed – in about a day or two each dossier went through the Kaz. Embassy and was sent to Astana.Now they have new people at the Embassy and we try to make the dossiers to go quickly through the Embassy but there is uncertainty if there will be some new requests or if there will be changes in timeframe. All those issues are of extreme delicacy so everything should be handled very delicately and with dyplomatic care. We can not argue with any one, we can not push on anyone, it is just no - no.We definitely will strive to establish our relationships the way for the paperwork to be approved by the Kaz. Embassy in an efficient manner.It might take some time to establish such relationships, but it is our target.When the paperwork is approved by the Embassy, it goes to the first Ministry – the ministry of Foreign Affairs. They are the most unreliable in terms of time but we also hope that we will find the way to pass the dossiers quickly or at least quicker than before. At the end of 2007 they were delaying things but when I called them at the beg. of 2008, they told that they process the dossiers as fast as they can and no any dossier is held there for more than 2 months. We also received info from other sources that some people were on vacations because of the New Year holidays and there were not much manpower to review the paperwork. There are always some issues that we might even not knowing about but they all affect on how quickly the paperwork goes through these official organizations. After the first ministry a dossier goes to the Second ministry – Ministry of Education.It is also in Astana. The second ministry is usually quick but it also depends on if the officials are in or out or busy or have conferences and so on.It is just not possible to put timeframe on the issues that are all flexible and adjustable. When the dossier is sent to a specific region by the Ministry of Education, it is all again flexible to what region it will end up to and how quickly the region will prepare the LOI. Some regions are quicker than others. There is one region where a panel of regional officials is called in order to review the dossier before they will issue the LOI. This region might take a month or even a month and a half only for the LOI. There is another region where they have established a line of families and invite only a few families at a time. There is a third region where they are pretty quick with the LOI but they are saying that the families should wait when the regional officials will indeed say that the families might arrive. Considering the fact that all families might have different requests, that there might be some regional specifics, that some children might be available or not available at a different time, that there might be other families, let's say from Europe, traveling to the same region, --- it is all very flexible.Changes occur and cases sometimes have flexibilities in their own terms. Please be patient and please know that mechanism of international adoption is a very complex mechanism, not all things work as they are designed to work or expected to work, there is a lot of extra effort needed, it is a lot of issues that might be even unknown to us that might play its role, there is no any guarantee in timeframes and even in outcomes, but we work very hard, extra hard and we keep all your interests not only in our minds but in our hearts as well.

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Apostille

 February 4, 2008


Apostille .....a French word which means a certification. Also know as the LAST step in the Kazakhstan paper chase! Dart was on the road for nearly 7 hours today. He drove to two county seats and to the state capital to obtain the certifications and apostilles neeeded for our dossier documents. The very lovely Jennifer Brunner certified 24 documents this afternoon and officially completed the paper chase phase of our Kaz adoption.


In case you wondered......
In 1961 many nations joined together to create a simplified method of "legalizing" documents for universal recognition. Members of the conference, referred to as the Hague Convention, adopted a document referred to as an apostille that is recognized by all member nations.
Documents sent to member nations, completed with an apostille at the state level, may be submitted directly to the member nation without further action.

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Priority Mail

 February 2, 2008

The final documents for our home study arrived today by priority mail. We now have certified copies of the social worker license and the home study agency license. On Monday Dart will drive to Columbus to get all of our documents Apostilled by the Secretary of State. With any luck our completed dossier will be submitted by Monday night!

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